Celebrating its two-year anniversary this year, Back Again Board Game Café in Middletown
offers precisely what its name suggests: board games and café snacks and drinks. What makes it
special, however, is the community that calls
that café home.
Jennifer Barone, co-owner of the
establishment with her husband, stated that
while the initial draw of the Middletown area
was the “walkable area along Main Street
with so many neat businesses,” the real
appeal of the café is “how completely lovely
the community in this area is.”
The limitless nature of their board game
collection, containing games with age ranges
stretching from two to “infinity,” allows for
everyone to land in a welcoming
environment open to experimentation and
exploration. “The concept of a board game café was attractive to me and my husband because
it’s a place you can try games before buying them, find like folk, explore, and it isn’t all reliant
on sales,” Barone explained.
Unlike ordinary cafés, Back Again and its board game offerings encourage patrons to linger –
“Folks don’t just come in, buy something, and go. We can form relationships, laugh, and support
each other.” In a time where social spaces and gatherings are still recovering from the COVID
pandemic and people are still feeling more isolated than ever, having spaces like Back Again is
vital. Barone remains humble about her role in building community – “We just provide a
structure,” she said. “We provide a space
that we care about, and that care extends to
everyone within it.” The real credit, she
claimed, lies with the patrons who frequent
the café. “It’s the people who come out to
us, tell other people about the space, and
are brave enough to join complete strangers
in games that make us so warm.”
Further cementing the café’s role in Middletown’s community is its partnership with Middletown
Pride. It all started with a gaming patron suggesting “gayme” night events for the LGBTQ+
community. “From there,” Barone shared, “we figured out what the Pride March looked like…
[and] we just had to get a group in the next time around. Seeing folks come together under our
banner in joy and support was one of the best moments we’ve had so far.”
Other touching moments and events have
highlighted parts of the community that are
often overlooked. “In our first year, we
partnered with the Alzheimer’s Association to
host a senior game day,” Barone shared. “Folks
went back to Battleship and Chutes & Ladders
to just be kids again. One fellow thanked us for
‘bringing back his childhood,’ and that will stay
with us as long as we’re here.”
Getting involved with Back Again and their
wide array of events is as easy as visiting their
website. With links to their various social media as well as a calendar and menu, the website is
the easiest place to get started. And, if people feel overwhelmed by the amount of choices
available to them, FAQ pages and game recommendations are readily available to help ease the
pressure. “Our staff knows our games,” Barone said. “We can help you find ones that suit your
group, learn them, and answer questions.” Many of the events they host are welcome to drop-ins,
and their “ability to keep having specific events relies heavily on continued attendance at them.”
If an event looks interesting, there is little harm to joining and trying it out!
March holds an especially significant holiday for geeks,
nerds, and gamers alike – Tolkien Reading Day. Held every
year on March 25th, Barone plans to highlight the Lord of
the Rings games in Back Again’s library, especially the
Adventure Book, as well as creating some new coffee and
tea concoctions with on-theme names. “For whatever else
those works are, they’re a story about light in the darkness,
and I think we need that right now,” Barone explained.
At the end of the day, Back Again is “here to connect folks
by means of board games. We welcome all those who
welcome others.”
